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17 set 2019
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Inglese (Stati Uniti)
Domande Inglese (Stati Uniti)
I want to understand "Soness minds".
Could you explain it?Her TED Talk speach are below.
I said" I just can't talk to anyone.I can't be social."
and he asked me, "Why?" " I don't know, I guess I feel shame." "For what?" "Shame for losing our baby." "What's shame?" What's shame?! I'm thinking very loudly in my head
" Oh my goodness, Yuji, you might be Japanese but you lived in New Zealand for 17 years.How could you not know thb English word for shame?" " Well, shame means you feel like you did something wrong, like there's something wrong with me."
"Did you?" " Huh?" " Do you feel like you intentionally hurt the baby?" " No."
"Then what is it?" I just feel really really sad.
Then just feel sad.and I was in that moment, I felt the love, compassion, and acceptance, I'd never experienced before.
Without saying another word, I felt heard.
Why does she felt the love, compassion, and acceptance although she felt sad??
I want to understand "Soness minds".
Could you explain it?Her TED Talk speach are below.
I said" I just can't talk to anyone.I can't be social."
and he asked me, "Why?" " I don't know, I guess I feel shame." "For what?" "Shame for losing our baby." "What's shame?" What's shame?! I'm thinking very loudly in my head
" Oh my goodness, Yuji, you might be Japanese but you lived in New Zealand for 17 years.How could you not know thb English word for shame?" " Well, shame means you feel like you did something wrong, like there's something wrong with me."
"Did you?" " Huh?" " Do you feel like you intentionally hurt the baby?" " No."
"Then what is it?" I just feel really really sad.
Then just feel sad.and I was in that moment, I felt the love, compassion, and acceptance, I'd never experienced before.
Without saying another word, I felt heard.
Why does she felt the love, compassion, and acceptance although she felt sad??
Could you explain it?Her TED Talk speach are below.
I said" I just can't talk to anyone.I can't be social."
and he asked me, "Why?" " I don't know, I guess I feel shame." "For what?" "Shame for losing our baby." "What's shame?" What's shame?! I'm thinking very loudly in my head
" Oh my goodness, Yuji, you might be Japanese but you lived in New Zealand for 17 years.How could you not know thb English word for shame?" " Well, shame means you feel like you did something wrong, like there's something wrong with me."
"Did you?" " Huh?" " Do you feel like you intentionally hurt the baby?" " No."
"Then what is it?" I just feel really really sad.
Then just feel sad.and I was in that moment, I felt the love, compassion, and acceptance, I'd never experienced before.
Without saying another word, I felt heard.
Why does she felt the love, compassion, and acceptance although she felt sad??
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I just found the TED talk you're referring to. Very good one!
Soness felt loved and accepted because after telling her husband she felt sad, her husband said "then just feel sad". By doing this, he listened to what she felt and made her feel it was okay to be sad. He didn't want to change her feelings to be happy, he accepted her emotions and allowed her to be sad. Most times when we're sad, people will tell us "be happy" so they're not accepting us for being sad, they are essentially saying "you're wrong for feeling sad, feel happy instead."
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